That was a hard time. I learnt a lot..

I have been struggling all my life trying to find a way to be myself.

I don't know where I have been, surely I wasn't here in this reality.

I was trapped in my mind, in a continuous wave of negative thoughts which created my reality.

I was running away from myself. Why was I running away from myself?

I was disconnected from my true self. I wasn't aware. I always read about awareness but

I didn't know what being aware meant.

Then, living in the darkness, I began doing meditation.

It was August 2013 when I began to draw ... unconsciously.

In my drawings there was my darkness, but irony as well, life force, freedom, and pain.

I don't know how to draw but I was pushing out my thinking on paper, it was a sort of therapy I think, so I began to draw.

It helped me to stop thinking, while I was doing it plus I liked my drawings.

The Anger, the desire, the body as a cage ©Loredana Denicola

Finally I vomited you © Loredana Denicola

I was obsessed, I couldn't sleep, I was overthinking, I was creating stories in my mind that didn't exist in reality, and this was affecting my existing life, my relationship with other people, my surrounding, my mental and physical health.

But, I wasn't aware, because I couldn't see it.

Desperately, I was looking for advice. One morning, at the gym, after yoga lesson, I asked to my yoga Instructor:

How can I stop thinking?

'This is a difficult question to ask, he said. I thing you should work on your breathing.

If you know how to breath you will stop your thinking'. He answered.

I went home, looking for information on Internet, about meditation.

I found the Buddhist centre, in Roman Road, East London. They were teaching two different types of meditation, metta bhavana and mindfulness.

At the beginning I was meditating one hour, every day. I wanted to learn how to do it.

I started writing non sense, drawing without knowing why, producing new photography art projects, following my intuition, I felt doing it without thinking and I was creating the most beautiful creations that I ever done in my life.

Time passed and I felt good. At the beginning my mind was chaotic, endless thoughts, one after the other, non stop.

I was active doing what I liked, not working much for money.

I changed few things on my website and all become more personal, more animated, more me.

I could see myself, where I was going on.

My website was full of creations.

It looks rich of ideas, creativity but messy, confused, it was too much.

There was too much in my mind.

A year ran and I began my project 'I Am Your Mirror'.

The door is not yet completely open but there is a door now.

I was looking for light.

In my drawing there are houses, many houses repeating constantly and there are crosses.

I am using three colour, white, black and red. I am looking for my house.

I think I am looking for myself.

I found the door.

I am still outside the door.

Didn’t get in yet.

But I can see the door.

The house is on the tree.

There are few buildings.

It is a small city where I am and there is this door that I am talking about.

What is Creativity?

Creativity has nothing to do with any activity in particular. It is not just painting or dancing or poetry. To be creative you don’t need to be an Artist.

Anything can be creative if you are creative in anything you do.

You can paint in an uncreative way but you can cook or walk or talk or moving in a creative way. Creativity is the quality and attention that you bring in what you are doing.

Feeling there while you are doing something, be present, be connected with your own reality.

It is like a magic act. Be present.

It is so difficult.

It is a way to be, your personal way to look at things around you and to look at yourself.

When you are present all around you look different, more alive.

So creativity is in anything you do.

It is your personal approach.

Not everybody can be an artist and a world full of artists would be uncreative as it will be very difficult to live with the same people and not everybody can be a dancer, we will see all the people jumping and dancing around and nothing else.

It would be fun to watch, a world full of dancers.

We need variety and everybody can be creative.

We need different form of creativity, and fortunately we all are artists in our own way.

Once I prepared a risotto with butter squash, onion, pears, brown rice melted with water and then I added a touch of cloves and flax seeds.

While happily I was eating my creation, because it was a creation, I realised that next time banana would work better than pear.

I felt that with a sweeter fruit all would have tasted amazingly and divine.

Try it – it is very tasty!

All things must be done with love and creativity without expectations, not forcing it.